Chapter 364 Breaking up with my mother-in-law on bad terms
"Mom, I'm not talking about you. How many of your natal family members can share the same thing? It's time to break up with them.
Just for the sake of these sticky glues, I won't hold a banquet. It's just wishful thinking to ask me to spend money to serve them with a smile.
Let me tell you, don’t tell my aunt and my uncle’s family about my family. If you don’t say anything and bring them to the door, I will no longer save you face, and I will throw them all out for you. "
Chen Hong’s mother was about to cry because of her daughter: “You naughty child, are you speaking human language?
Your aunt, your uncle and I have the same mother and are direct blood relatives of our family. How can you treat them like this? "
Chen Hong was dissatisfied: "Yes, they are your direct blood relatives. If you have money and things to fill their big holes, that is your business.
But I'm separated from them! Our Lao Chen family has nothing to do with your Lao Niu family.
My direct blood relatives are only you, my father, brother and sister, and my son. I don’t have time to take care of them, and I don’t have the energy to hang out with your blood relatives.
As a woman, it's not easy to make money with bare hands. How about you mobilize my aunt and uncle and ask them to help me a little first? I still have a mortgage of more than 100,000 yuan to pay off! "
Chen Hong's mother is really annoyed. Her eldest daughter has been fighting against her for not knowing whether she has taken the wrong medicine in the past few years, saying that she doesn't listen to anything.
It hurts to be rude when she opens her mouth. Before she was married, this child was capable and caring. He helped her with things at home and outside. He was able to make money and was obedient, which made her most worry-free.
She was married far away, and her heart was far away. She always felt that her mother was partial, but which family in the village didn't feel like this?
Whose family does not rely on their sons to support them until they die?
When a daughter gets married, she becomes someone else's family, and the children she gives birth to will also have other people's surnames.
That is, on New Year's Day and birthdays, we come to have a meal, and after the meal we go back to our respective homes. How about the old saying that if there are nephews and dogs, the nephews will leave when they are full?
Since ancient times, the son has been the backbone of the family and the person who takes over his family's household registration.
A daughter, if she has that kind of heart, will even try to win over her natal brothers, buy clothes for her natal parents, and give them some pocket money.
Those careless ones not only ignore their parents' home, but don't even have a phone call with them for several months, and even go back to their parents' home to pick up large and small bags of things.
She thought that although she was partial to her son, she was not unkind to the Chen Hong sisters!
Although she accepted their betrothal gifts, she still bought dowries for them. Compared with other parents in the village, she was still very kind to her daughters.
She also helped Chen Hong take care of her confinement, why is this damn girl still dissatisfied with her?
Chen Hong's mother cried, her tears falling in pairs. Chen Hong and her sister-in-law were both confused by her crying.
Chen Hong: I really can’t communicate! How did she irritate her mother again?
Sister-in-law Chen Hong also hurriedly tried to persuade her: "Mom, what are you doing? It's the first time Xiaohong brings her new son-in-law to the house. Why are you crying?"
I don’t know, I thought you had an opinion on Zhou Yi! How can we meet again in the future? My dad will definitely be angry if he knows you are like this.
Besides, Xiaohong is right! My uncle and my aunt’s relatives are not members of the CCP. When your son buys a house, my wife and I can’t even borrow a penny, let alone Xiao Hong.
There is no sense of being a relative at all, so why are you dragging Xiao Hong along to please them? You forgot, the last time you brought those people to the door, Chen Hong spent ten thousand yuan in one go.
It's more than 10,000. How much work did my father and Chen Yi have to do to earn so much money? One meal was eaten by these bear relatives.
You gave them a lot of nice words, but it cost Xiao Hong so much money.
More than 10,000 yuan is enough for Xiaohong to buy seafood and rare food for our family for a year. Why don't you feel bad about Xiaohong spending money?
Your daughter is no closer than your natal family, right? You are still treating Xiaohong for those who have nothing to do with you!
It's hard for you to think that your children are capable. When you meet your uncle and my aunt, you act like you're wearing a zipper. "
Sister-in-law Chen Hong doesn't care about her mother-in-law or not, she really dared to say it with such a low face.
Chen Hong and her mother broke up on bad terms, and when she left with Zhou Yi, the old lady didn't even show her face.
On the way back to Jinan, Zhou Yi drove his car and asked Chen Hong: "Chen Hong, is your mother dissatisfied with me? Tonight, she doesn't look happy at all!"
Before Chen Hong could say anything, Yu Yang answered from the side, "Dad Zhou, don't worry, my grandma is like this. Apart from my uncle and my grandpa, she has no one she is satisfied with."
Chen Hong: Why is this naughty kid talking so fast!
Zhouyi: Is this something I can listen to? And in front of the newlywed wife! Is this guy trying to trick me?
"Ahem, cough," Chen Hong rolled her eyes at Yu Yang, "As a nephew, how can you say that to your grandma? It's too much!
When did you come to your grandma’s house and she didn’t let you eat or drink well? This is not right for you! "
Yu Yang muttered in a low voice: "My grandma always says that my nephew and nephew will leave when they are full! I don't like her."
"Just because you don't like her doesn't mean you can't respect your grandma, she's your mother's mother!
You are a primary school student, so you should be careful not to say random things in the future.
If you do it in front of outsiders, not only will people have a bad opinion of your grandma, but they will also laugh at you for being ignorant and rude. "
Yu Yang felt a little aggrieved: "I'm not telling lies, my grandma just doesn't like me. Besides, I haven't said anything bad about her in front of others, so I just talked to Dad Zhou."
Seeing her son's grievance, Chen Hong also softened her heart: "Son, don't blame your grandma. People of their generation were uneducated and had a serious feudal mentality.
That's because of the times. Your grandma is partial, and your aunt and I understand it best. But there is no way, my biological mother can't change her, what can I do?
At most, you can have less contact with her, and you must be filial to her. Besides, instead of looking at your grandma, we have to look at your grandpa. Your grandpa is very good to us.
If you don't like grandma, I won't bring you back in the future, but I won't be able to say these inappropriate words in the future. "
Yu Yang nodded faintly and said no more.
Zhou Yi also understood Chen Hong's mother's situation from the conversation between their mother and son, and was no longer nervous. As long as she was not dissatisfied with him.
Chen Hong still explained to him: "Don't worry, my mother is just like this, not for you.
She wanted us to hold a wedding and set up a banquet to invite relatives to have a wedding banquet. I didn't agree and she was a little angry.
Zhou Yi, my mother and I have some disagreements and we never get to talk together. Today, because of me, you have been left out by the old lady. I’m so sorry! "
Zhou Yi understood her very well. Most of his comrades-in-arms were from the countryside. After serving together as soldiers for so many years, he knew a lot about the situation in the countryside.
Preferring sons over daughters is very common in rural areas. Not to mention favoring sons over daughters, it is also normal for parents to favor favoritism between boys.
He has seen old ladies like Chen Hongma before, so it's not unusual at all.
But when something like this happened to Chen Hong, he felt very uncomfortable.
No wonder Chen Hong got divorced. She would rather live alone in Yujiacun with her children and go fishing at sea at her own risk than return to Jinan to join her parents' family!
Indifference to family ties may be the reason why Chen Hong strives to be a strong woman.